Just for fun I Googled the word Cupid. It shouldn't have
come as a surprise that the first site to pop up was a dating site entitled
Cupid.com. Okcupid.com is another one that appeared a couple of sites below the
first, and I’m sure if I looked farther I would have found more. Honestly I
have never been on one of those dating sites, and I really thank my lucky stars
I don’t have to resort to that. Is it really that bad though?
Now look at what
happened. I had this whole plan to talk about Cupid shooting people with his
love arrows. Said people would then fall in love. Cupid would be praised as a
hero, and Valentine’s Day would be deemed a success. Now I’m waaay off track
and I’m not quite sure how to get back on. Heaven only knows what I would find
if I Googled Valentine’s Day. Probably some horror movie would show up or
something. J
So, here in the
United States, we are brainwashed into thinking that Valentine’s Day is the be
all that ends all in the LOVE department.
As children we buy or make Valentine Day cards for our “friends.” We all know
that we pick out the best cards for those we would like to become better
friends with. The problem is instead of hearts exploding with love many times
they get shattered into a million little pieces because the ones we have our
eyes set on have no interest whatsoever. The way I saw it was that Valentine’s
Day teaches kids how to become introverts. Who wants to take a chance on love
when chances are you will just get shot down?
Now, you may think
that I was one of those whose cute little card was not thought of or
appreciated the way it should have been. Maybe that is why I have this jilted
view of the Day Of Love. Did I ever get the Be Mine candy heart? Honestly… I
don’t remember. I’m sure I did. I just think that when you put so much emphasis
on love one day a year you are bound for heartbreak. Love should be emphasized
every day of the year.
Why do we pressure the
ones we love to buy jewelry, candy, or flowers? Why do we drive ourselves nuts
trying to figure out something romantic for our significant others? Can’t we
express our love in different ways, on different days? What about the people
that don’t have that someone special in their life? There’s nothing like
realizing you are alone on the proclaimed most romantic day of the year. One of
your coworkers ooh and ahh about their Valentine Day plans while another
accepts flowers from a delivery person. Yea… nothing says heartbreak more than
watching and listening to those that are loved be adorned this one day.
As you can see I am
not a big fan of this day. The Charmed One and I usually don’t celebrate it in
any certain way. We try to spread things out throughout the year. A small gift
here, a day trip there. We proclaim our love to each other every day, in different ways, and don’t
go overboard on just one.
With all that being
said I hope you do have a great day. I hope you get whatever it is you might
want. You do deserve it!!!
Is your significant other the romantic type? Do you do something
special to celebrate the day? Did you get the Valentine you wanted from the
person you wanted it from when you were a kid? What is your favorite Valentine’s
Day present?
W.P.I.
- The history of giving your loved one
Valentine's Day flowers comes from the old-fashioned custom of sending floral
bouquets to pass on non-verbal messages. Introduced in the 18th century by
Charles II of Sweden, each flower had a specific meaning attached to it, making
it possible to have an entire conversation using only flowers.
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